Building Skill in Peacemaking - Alexandria Skinner, J.D., Mediator and Attorney

Empowering Questions

By Skinner, on July 28th, 2011%

Sometimes the question is more important than the answer. How can we discern what questions to ask? . . . → Read More: Empowering Questions

Recognizing Stages of Conflict and Knowing When to Call for Help

By Skinner, on July 9th, 2011%

Is this dispute something you can work through yourselves, something a mediator can help with, or do you need to call law enforcement? This article discussing stages of conflict and intervention strategies appropriate for each stage will help you decide. . . . → Read More: Recognizing Stages of Conflict and Knowing When to Call for Help

Scapegoating: A Case of Misplaced Blame, Part III

By Skinner, on June 10th, 2011%

Feel a compelling need to tell the truth? If you do, maybe it’s time to let someone else take a turn. . . . → Read More: Scapegoating: A Case of Misplaced Blame, Part III

Scapegoating: A Case of Misplaced Blame, Part II

By Skinner, on February 16th, 2011%

More explanation of scapegoating as experienced in family units, extended families, businesses, and churches . . . → Read More: Scapegoating: A Case of Misplaced Blame, Part II

Scapegoating in Conflict Resolution, Part I

By Skinner, on February 15th, 2011%

When we are confronted with a problem that has no easy or obvious solution, it’s tempting to scapegoat rather than address the true causes. Here is a personal story that illustrates the basic idea of scapegoating and shows why it’s not a good method of conflict resolution. . . . → Read More: Scapegoating in Conflict Resolution, Part I